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		<title>Looking for Leadership in ALL the Right Places</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/03/11/looking-for-leadership-in-all-the-right-places/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Leadership Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[engaged employees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Retaining talent]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Often your employees with leadership potential demonstrates it outside the job in community activities but it lies hidden at work. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I began my career in the airline industry. I hit a spell when I was languishing in an uninspiring job, wasn&#8217;t growing, and truth-be-told, wasn&#8217;t trying very hard to change things. As a diversion, I was drawn into Toastmasters, became deeply involved in their public speaking education program and moved into leadership positions in my local TM club. I also found myself organizing an international table tennis tournament for airline employees.</p>
<p>These were outlets for my leadership learning to blossom. Looking back, I should have channeled this energy back into my career but, hey, I was young and naive. It seemed easier to make a leadership mark in a volunteer capacity. Furthermore, it was self-affirming, a lot of fun, and I received recognition for my efforts.</p>
<p>Leadership development, aka talent development and high potential (&#8220;hi pot&#8221;) development, is a hot issue, particularly in the private sector. The best organizations are always on the lookout within their ranks for potential future leaders. And at least the larger firms have formal processes for identifying these folks.</p>
<p>But how do you know that you have a future star in your department, especially if the work you have for them doesn&#8217;t provide an opportunity to lead others?</p>
<p>Listen for what your people do outside of work. With some, you&#8217;ll be pleasantly surprised–and impressed. Are they running a community baseball league? Organizing a 10K run for some worthy cause? Chairing a committee in a non-profit organization?</p>
<p>Now your challenge, as their manager, is to find ways for this enthusiasm to manifest itself in the workplace. What a loss if it doesn&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>Cultural Neuroscience – The Brain in Action Again</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/03/08/cultural-neuroscience-%e2%80%93-the-brain-in-action-againho/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 12:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Stand Alone Topics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blind spots]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Diversity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental conditioning]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perceptions]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[References an article on the field of Cultural Neuroscience, studying another way external cues shape our brain.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not surprisingly, although I had never heard about it before, there is a branch of brain research that studies:</p>
<ol>
<li>How cultural traits to which we are exposed impact our brains</li>
<li>How our brain and its processes impact the emergence and transmission of cultural traits</li>
</ol>
<p>Newsweek had an <a href="http://www.newsweek.com/id/233778">interesting short article</a> by Sharon Begley that offers just a glimpse into this field. She recounts a study comparing how, for Chinese and Westerners, the medial prefrontal cortex (a section of the brain) swings into action when they pondered whether a particular adjective describes themselves. The same area activated for both groups.</p>
<p>What is interesting is that the <em>same brain area</em> also fired for the Chinese when considering whether the word applied as well to their mother. For the Westerners, it did not. For them, there was no overlap.</p>
<p>What can we in management do with this information? I&#8217;m not sure. But for me it just underlines how powerfully our culture, experiences and thoughts carve deep neural pathways in our brain circuitry, pathways that guide our default, unconscious behavior and decisions. Begley puts it so much better:</p>
<blockquote><p>…our lives leave footprints on the bumps and fissures of our cortex.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Brain-4.gif"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1733" title="Brain-4" src="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Brain-4.gif" alt="" width="220" height="172" /></a></p>
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		<title>Getting Motivated by Meeting those You Serve</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/03/04/getting-motivated-by-meeting-those-you-serve/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 12:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Employee Motivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[customer service]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[engaged employees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[motivating employees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positive attitude]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Reports on research showing that people who meet those their work product ultimately serves are motivated to higher performance.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s notoriously hard to motivate people who work in repetitive or routine administrative or blue collar jobs. Adam Grant, management professor at the Wharton School of Business, however, has done some research which perhaps makes the task a tad easier.</p>
<p><em>Knowledge@Wharton</em> reports on a <a href="http://knowledge.wharton.upenn.edu/article.cfm?articleid=2436">series of experiments by Grant</a>, all linked to the idea that if you have the opportunity to meet, face-to-face, with at least a sample of the people who ultimately benefit from the work you do, your performance level will rise.</p>
<ul>
<li>In a fundraising call center, reps who had met a few of the recipients of the funds were more persistent, spending significantly more time on the phone, and secured significantly more donation money.</li>
<li>Lifeguards who read case studies of people whose lives had been saved by the actions of other lifeguards increased the hours worked and were rated higher by their supervisors on helping behavior.</li>
<li>Individuals at a Career Center editing the resumés of job seekers, if they had even just a brief chat with the applicants, spent much more time on the task.</li>
</ul>
<p>Adam Grant <strong>summarizes the results</strong>: Employees who know, first hand, how their work impacts others in a positive and meaningful way are happier than those who don&#8217;t and are vastly more productive.</p>
<p>He goes on to point out that this dynamic holds equally for employees whose work product serves internal &#8220;customers&#8221; (end users).</p>
<p>Think of your work flow and administration processes in your organization. Food for thought…</p>
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		<title>Ensuring HR Has a Seat at the Table</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/03/01/ensuring-hr-has-a-seat-at-the-table/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 12:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Stand Alone Topics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[human resources]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[role of human resources]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trusted advisor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[understanding the business]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[HR professionals need to develop a good understanding of the "business" in which their organization engages and to understand the motivations and concerns of their line side clients, as good sales people do.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At a recent HR networking event I attended Alice Waagen, President of <a href="http://www.workforcelearning.com/">Workforce Learning LLC</a>, presented on &#8220;The Top 5 Skills for Human Resource Professionals.&#8221; One of her five struck me as by far the most critical for HR&#8217;s success in any organization: &#8220;<strong>Business Acumen</strong>.&#8221; Interestingly, this was the one that generated the most lively discussion among the attendees.</p>
<p>Under &#8220;business acumen,&#8221; Alice included a basic understanding of the classic elements of business: finance, marketing, strategic planning, production, customer service, and the role of technology. By the way, this applies for any sector–private, public, or not-for-profit.</p>
<p>Why is having this broad knowledge important? Because HR professionals need to understand the world of the line side of the enterprise if they are going to be a <em>trusted advisor</em> to their internal client(s). Yes, trusted advisor. This is the other and more critical role of HR, beyond ensuring compliance to corporate human resources related policies and processes.</p>
<p><a href="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/seat_at_table2.gif"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1717" title="seat_at_table" src="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/seat_at_table2.gif" alt="" width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>But in order for HR to achieve genuine trusted advisor status, let me suggest two additional skills under <em>Business Acumen</em>:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>An understanding of the specific &#8220;business&#8221; of the organization</strong>. What are the key products, services, production processes, strategic plans, challenges, infrastructure strengths and weaknesses, and so forth? This gives them &#8220;street cred&#8221; with managers on the line side. In addition, it enables HR folks to provide informed input, especially at the C-level, on key business issues that arise.</li>
<li><strong>A good sense of how successful sales people build and maintain relationships. G</strong>ood sales people (and trusted advisors, BTW) develop a deep awareness of their client&#8217;s concerns, fears, hopes, desires, assumptions, biases, etc. They are able to look at problems through the filter of their client, while adding value by applying a professional human resources prism as well.</li>
</ol>
<p>For example, the VP of Field Operations is concerned that customer service attitudes are poor and causing retail sales to drop. HR makes an evidence-based case that the culprit is weak management skills leading to low front line staff morale. How to proceed? The savvy HR manager frames the goal in terms of getting sales back up. This is what he talks about when proposing any training initiative or other intervention to boost morale. Fix the sales problem and you&#8217;ve earned the respect of the VP. <em>How</em> you do it is not high on your client&#8217;s list of concerns.</p>
<p>So, if you are in HR, make sure that you understand your organization&#8217;s core business. Then position your role as, first and foremost, supporting the enterprise&#8217;s success. And, if you are a non-HR executive, insist that members of your Human Resources department learn what they need to know about the business of the business in order to earn that seat at the table of decision-makers.</p>
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		<title>Is the Coaching Client Ready?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 12:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Building Accountability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Coaching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Leadership Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[accountability]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Strategies to bring people who constitute a worthwhile investment in coaching to the point where they are willing to do the tough work to become more effective as a leader.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente (University of Rhode Island) developed a <a href="http://www.addictioninfo.org/articles/11/1/Stages-of-Change-Model/Page1.html">Stages of Change Model</a> that for 30 years has helped therapists and counsellors work effectively with clients with addiction. Here are the six stages:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Precontemplation</strong> (not yet acknowledging a need for changed behavior)</li>
<li><strong>Contemplation</strong> (acknowledging the need but not yet willing to proceed with the change)</li>
<li><strong>Preparation/Determination</strong> (ready to make the change and gearing up for it)</li>
<li><strong>Action</strong> (engaging in the new behavior)</li>
<li><strong>Maintanence</strong> (sustaining the new behavior over the long term, hopefully permanently)</li>
<li><strong>Relapse</strong> (returning to the old ways)</li>
</ol>
<p>What intrigues me here, <strong>in the context of executive coaching</strong>, are Stages 1 &amp; 2.</p>
<p>Obviously, no successful growth to more effective leadership behaviors will happen if the individual doesn&#8217;t:</p>
<ul>
<li>see a problem with how he or she is operating currently, or</li>
<li>have a genuine desire to become better as a manager.</li>
</ul>
<p>Coaching is an investment made mostly in current relatively senior managers or individuals identified as high potential future leaders. So, as you look at potential candidates in which to invest your limited development resources, the first question is to clarify is to what extent they are at the <em>Precontemplation</em> or <em>Contemplation</em> stages.</p>
<p>If not, here are several ways to move them through to stage 3:</p>
<ul>
<li>Express your belief that they have potential to rise to a senior leadership role in the organization (This is by no means a promise. You are just informing them of your perception of them.)</li>
<li>Administer a 360º feedback process for them, to give them a reality check on how they are currently being experienced by others.</li>
<li>Challenge them as to what are their own goals and aspirations for their career.</li>
<li>And, for less-than-acceptable performers, give them clear, tough feedback about their current poor performance and the consequences if they don&#8217;t turn this around.</li>
</ul>
<p>These strategies will raise the individual&#8217;s conscious awareness that there is a problem or an untapped potential. The final step before you decide to invest in him or her is to solicit to what extent he/she is willing to do the tough personal and professional developmental work in order to make a shift to greater effectiveness.</p>
<p>Absent that <strong>genuine</strong> willingness, don&#8217;t waste you money on coaching.</p>
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		<title>The Paradox of Who Makes the Decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 12:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[accountability]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Clarify the situations when your employees should make their own decisions and solve problems without coming to you, their boss, for the answer.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">Leadership Coach and blogger, John Agno, recently laid out eighteen  <a href="http://www.coachingtip.com/2010/02/leadership-lessons.html">lessons on leadership from Colin Powell</a>. One particularly caught my attention with its application to the non-military organizational environment:</p>
<blockquote>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help them or concluded that you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership.</p>
</blockquote>
<p style="text-align: justify;">As John mentions, sometimes leaders foster a culture that asking your boss for help is a sign of weakness or failure. This can have really negative consequences for the organization because employees will not tap into the experience and wisdom of their boss when it is appropriate. In the end they risk making poor decisions that can cost a lot.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">But the real issue here involves, as is so often the case with the art of management, a <strong>paradox</strong>:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/woman_confused1.gif"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1596" title="woman_confused" src="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/woman_confused1.gif" alt="" width="200" height="133" /></a></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>On the one hand</strong> you want your people to take full accountability for their job, including making decisions and taking action without always running to you to solve their problems or provide cover by endorsing decisions they are about to make.</li>
<li><strong>On the other hand</strong>, you want your staff to come to you when they are truly stymied, the cost of a bad decision is too high, or they need information that is understandably beyond their reach.</li>
</ul>
<p>The &#8220;art&#8221; here is, when an employee brings a problem to your doorstep, to be able to differentiate between a problem that they should be able to handle on their own and one on which it is appropriate to consult with you.</p>
<p>Make a point of clarifying with each of your direct employees what sorts of issues or situations should trigger their talking with you first. You can do this as part of a larger conversation about the performance expected from them. Part of their performance, after all, is bringing their independent judgment to bear in their job. These guidelines, of course, may need to be adjusted as you go forward, so be sure to revisit them periodically, as needed.</p>
<p>Finally, having done such a good job clarifying decision boundaries, resist the ever-present temptation to break these guidelines by taking the &#8220;monkey&#8221; and solving a problem that clearly belongs to them.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
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		<title>The Truth that Hurts but Will Help Us Cope</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 12:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[courageous communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Managers have an obligation to drive home to their employees that the insecurity of recent years will only increase in the decade ahead and then help them accept responsibility for how best to respond.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Managers have been sorely challenged in 2009 and this year to keep optimistic and not succumb to the ongoing, sometimes mind-numbing stress of work and, at best, tenuous job security. They are called to do this not only for themselves but also for their people. One place employees look for assurance that things will be OK is their immediate boss. If she is sounding scared or negative, staff will pick it up too.</p>
<p>But lingering somewhere in the back of our minds is the idea that when this is all over and we all have jobs back again, things will return to how it was before derivative financing and house prices tanked.</p>
<p>Well, it looks more and more like things won&#8217;t!</p>
<p>This week <strong>Newsweek Magazine</strong> featured an <a href="http://www.newsweek.com/id/233528">excerpt</a> from Author Greg Easterbrook&#8217;s latest book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Sonic-Boom-Globalization-Mach-Speed/dp/1400063957/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1266249047&amp;sr=1-1">Sonic Boom</a>. In it he talks about the frenetic pace of change due to globalization and how, once we come out of the recession, this will sweep us all back into its vortex, resulting in both benefit and pain. Let me quote him on the bad news part of our future:</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Sonic-Boom.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1643" title="Sonic Boom" src="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Sonic-Boom-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>…just as favorable economic and social trends are likely to resume, many problems that have characterized recent decades are likely to get worse, too.</p>
<p>Job instability, economic insecurity, a sense of turmoil, the fear that when things seem good a hammer is about to fall–these are also part of the larger trend.  As world economies become ever more linked by computers, job stress will become a 24/7 affair. Frequent shakeups in industries will cause increasing uncertainty.</p></blockquote>
<p>I think this means managers must consciously shift the context of the conversations they have with their employees. We need to create a new consciousness about how…</p>
<ol>
<li>We really mean it this time–there really won&#8217;t be that elusive thing we call security as we go forward in the decade.</li>
<li>This means that each one of us, manager and employee alike, needs to start seeing ourselves as what William Bridges calls &#8220;You &amp; Company.&#8221; We have take personal responsibility for our job performance record, our skill and educational development, and our ability to stay marketable in the crazy economy coming at us.</li>
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<p>We have to get it ourselves! And we owe it to our employees to drive the message home to them as well.</p>
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		<title>Are You a &#8220;Director&#8221; or an &#8220;Informer?&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/02/15/are-you-a-director-or-an-informer-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communicating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[clear performance expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communicating assertively]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lays out two possible types of communication when you are attempting to influence the actions of others.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s an easy way to notice how you communicate <strong>when you want to influence someone to do something</strong>. It is a simple, practical model that comes from <a href="http://www.interstrength.com">Interstrength Associates</a> and we cover it in our <a href="http://www.888fulcrum.com/training_interaction_styles.aspx">Understanding Yourself and Others</a> workshop.</p>
<p>We all have a place of comfort along a continuum that extends from purely &#8220;Directing&#8221; all the way to purely &#8220;Informing&#8221; others. Take a look along the line and see which phrasing feels most comfortable to you and sounds like how you would express your need to others.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1545" title="Directing_Informing_Continuum" src="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Directing_Informing_Continuum.gif" alt="" width="600" height="385" /></p>
<p>There are times when speaking from either extremity of the continuum is appropriate and not disconcerting to those who receive your message.</p>
<ul>
<li>When you choose speak from the <strong>directing </strong>end, it is usually because of a time pressure and/or the need to focus laser-like on the task at-hand. This context enables your demand not to come across as inappropriately bossy.</li>
<li>Totally <strong>informing</strong> language works well when you want to motivate people to choose to do the action or when you want to enroll them in a wider process.</li>
</ul>
<p>Those situations aside, a problem arises when a manager needs to get greater buy-in and participation from his or her people but is habitually directive in his/her speech. I encounter problems more often, however, in bosses who are looking to come across more assertively but continue to speak in a strongly informative style. Words do make a difference. Usually, if a non-assertive manager <em>consciously</em> adopts a more directive delivery, over time he/she will become comfortable with how that sounds and will incorporate it into his/her default speaking style. As a result, he/she will come across as more assertive and confident in situations that call for this.</p>
<p>Does what you say when influencing your staff project the &#8220;you&#8221; you want them to experience?</p>
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		<title>The Manager&#8217;s Most Important 3 Feet</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/02/11/the-managers-most-important-3-feet/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 20:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communicating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Employee Engagement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Employee Motivation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communications]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[engaged employees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[inspirational leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[managing people]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stresses the importance to managers of how they handle the interpersonal space between them and each of their employees.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A professional speaker colleague of mine, <a href="http://www.samgeist.com/">Sam Geist</a>, talks about the most important three feet for a sales person–that three foot distance lying between you and your customer. He even hands out yardsticks at his keynote presentations to burnish this point in the minds of his audience.</p>
<p>In a similar vein, I put it to you that your most important three feet <strong>as a manager</strong> is that space between you and your employee. I&#8217;m not talking about so much about the physical space but more importantly about the mental and emotional space. How you handle this &#8220;I-thou&#8221; space will determine how effective a leader you are. It&#8217;s a distance across which pass–in both directions–information, meaning, expectations, resistance, appreciation, criticism, enthusiasm, hope, discouragement, fear, and much, much more.</p>
<p>We hear a lot these days about employee engagement, productivity, and retention, about talent development, and about leadership. These are all central to the results your employees ultimately generate and how profitable and successful your enterprise will be in creating wealth and achieving its goals.</p>
<p>Look at the organizations that do these things well and trace back to what&#8217;s behind it. Your search will eventually take you to that same &#8220;yardstick&#8221; of distance across which exemplary managers are leading excellent relationships with their employees. This is where the important work of leaders at all levels lies.</p>
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		<title>Stepping into the Lion&#8217;s Den</title>
		<link>http://buildbestbosses.com/2010/02/08/stepping-into-the-lions-den/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 12:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ian Cook</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Change]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[courageous communication]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[President Obama demonstrated a key element of leadership by meeting with the Republican House caucus for questions and dialogue.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week President Barack Obama stood before the Republican House of Representatives caucus and took direct questions. This is a group that, from the President&#8217;s perspective, has been opposing his agenda adamantly at every turn. This fascinating event is the closest thing I&#8217;ve ever seen to what people with parliamentary systems know as Question Period (Canada) or Question Time (England).</p>
<p>Leaving aside the political issues and possible motives ascribed to each side for engaging in the event, I think Obama modeled an important element of leadership. This is the willingness to seek out and engage in dialogue those who oppose your ideas or have yet to buy in to your agenda and vision.</p>
<p><a href="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Obama-at-GOP-Retreat.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1514" title="Obama at GOP Retreat" src="http://buildbestbosses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Obama-at-GOP-Retreat-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Many leaders do this as part of their strategy for implementing change. They hold all-hands staff meetings to explain their vision, share the rationale and benefits of the change, and then respond to questions from the troops. It is even more effective if, at the outset, the leader makes it clear that he/she welcomes expressions of concern and disagreement.</p>
<p>There is tremendous power in putting yourself out there among your fiercest skeptics, listening to and honoring their points-of-view, acknowledging their heartfelt concerns, and then responding with the goal of assuaging their fears and inviting them to see things from your perspective.</p>
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